Soft pliable hard firm empty filled as when required. Think of the playing needs as different minds are needed at different state of the game and for different shots. Nimble @soft confident for puts and chips, firm confident for long shots.
Ability to keep empty yet confident is as important of filling the needed thoughts. How can one develop this kind of maneuverable mind.
Follow lali.elite.Golf for stepwise method that will come erratic manner on purpose. Stay alert like a snoozing lion waiting for pray to pound on Till then focus on deep breathing five mints in the early morning and for five mints before sleeping that way calm mind will set if for better focusing when in need. We call this mental exercise